I can’t always show myself. To put out a lit cigarette in public that’s causing second hand smoke the air that’s breathing. There’s that weapon to think about. Poker may not just be words of exchange but escalate to higher degree. Verbal? Some are at if u can’t beat them join them? U can’t always join and agree second hand smoke is not harmful or afraid. I’ve seen people that don’t have a choice but to put up. I try to save help where is needed public crowds 101.